On an ideal site there would be a feature that would somehow allow one to get a message to another member who has posted something very negative and then turned their PM system off. Perhaps through a mod...I don't know. But I don't believe in posting something that is thoughtless or "flaming" and then refusing to accept responsiblity for it..by not accepting PMs from others who might not agree with my views. That feature would be a plus in my "ideal" site. AND I do not want to get a discussion going about this. This is my idea for an "ideal" site...