He finally got on Medicare or Medicaid (not sure which one it is) this month. Up until now, he was on my private insurance. I asked him to check in to what kind of help we can get as far as someone coming into the home.

I often wonder what we would do if something happened to me and I couldn't be here. My mom and sister are nurses, so if push came to shove, they could come over. He would would be mortified for them to see him naked, but you kinda have to do that when you put a catheter in so he can pee-pee! And he has the ostomy bag for BMs that they would have to take of.