My T has a public email address. Between our visits, I can email her a topic or issue that is concerning me in the moment that can then be bought up next time we meet. The emails aren't in depth, just like a bullet point. This has worked well for us. What usually happens for us otherwise is that, for eg. during the week, Jenni might have had some big things come up but Ronnie is out during appt so Jenni's stuff doesn't get a mention leaving Jenni still upset/confused/etc. This way Jenni can email T about her issues, so T can mention it at appt and then it is weighed up against what Ronnie wants to talk about. Does that make sense?? Why is it so much harder to articulate in type??
I guess what I'm trying to say is, does your T have an email address that you could send her what you would like to discuss before you go so that you feel more comfortable?
kp