Geez. That does suck. It sounds like the shower was poorly made, if you ask me. I see nothing wrong with the way you look. I think you are a beautiful woman. I'm not a small woman, either, but have accepted my weight as being me. Sure I'd like to lose about 50 lbs. and all that, but what are the chances of losing it and keeping it off for me? Slim to none! So I just have to accept myself.

You are not fat! It's not like you're 500 lbs. or anything like that. And I KNOW you're not! Anyways, I'd just say that your grandfather's shower is just poorly made...just accept that as true. If it wouldn't have happened to you, it would've been somebody else it would've happened to in the family. Trust me.