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Isadora the only thing you can do is talk to him. His insecurities are HIS issues. Talk to him and let him know you love him, but HE has to deal with the insecurities. Even if you locked yourself up in your house with no outside contact with anyone but him, he would still be afraid that you’re thinking of someone else. It takes a lot of work to overcome these issues; it is a life long struggle that will not fix itself over night.
What troubles me the most about your post is that you think he can save you from YOUR issues. Depending upon someone else for your happiness is a recipe for disaster. Humans are fallible. We make mistakes real and imagined. I do not know what you are going through, but DO contact a professional. If you are a danger to yourself, call 911. Please reach out for help irl.
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I've been married for 24 years and have four wonderful children.
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