If you are making a point of cheking up on them and letting them know you are checking on them because you don't trust that they are taking care of themself, then yeah that can be a problem. However, if you are checking in and letting them known from time to time that you are still there and have not run away, that isn't so bad.
It is a pretty fine line between the two though sometimes.
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