it's a double edged sword for me; i like people earnstly asking, and making a point (like inviting me over to play some board games and dinner, and asking if everything is okay.)

but what i cant stand, and my father does this, is either IM's me, or TXTs me, and asks "where you? okay?" and that's it. that's annoying. my Mom at least calls me and asks if i'm okay, and then disappears with her friends back to the woods. :/