(((((((((((((widget)))))))))))) That Borderliny part sounds so afraid that your Robert will be stolen from you. That's kind of the way that the emotional love/hate side of it works. Remember, love can't be stolen or forced. r manipulated, It's going to be easier for your head to understand than your heart. Try to force it, you might lose it. Robert will settle down into making sure there is room for you in that heart too, remember. It's going to be really hard for that anxiety to settle down about that , but remind it that people don't usually work all hate/all love. Love makes room for more. You'll be fine, even though it doesn't feel great now. HUGGGGSSS