Thanks for asking the question, Phoenix. You're always so thoughtful!

Well, as I've shared in bits and pieces, but who knows which forum or thread.

Once upon a time, we made big bucks. We have a pretty nice home in an upper end neighborhood. Even if we don't get what it's really worth, we still double our investment. That sounds like a lot, but over 20 years it really isn't.

After we pay off different family members and catch up on insurance, credit cards, etc. we'll have enough to buy a cheap house in a less desirable neighborhood. It will have to be in cash because our credit has been destroyed. So to answer the question, I know that relatives will let us bunk up for awhile, but not what I wish for, of course.

Of course, the logistics of actually closing, packing and moving all this stuff into someplace is making me whacko. I feel so powerless. And spouse and I are already "posturing" for the stubborn discussions. Those where I resist and she bowls through like the Type A she is.

I think I'll be writing a lot here. Geesh.