i am really sorry that happened to you and that a child was used as a barganing chip in the relationship
I hope you get to see your daughter now and that you have a good realtionship and that she is safe
Being abuse has on occasssion left peopel wihtthe need to "pay back" the other sex for the abuse they endured - perhaps this is what she was trying to do to you - or using the same techniques that were used to control her - on you
i hope she gets some help
and i hope you are ok now - if not please get help - yu dont deserve to suffer because of this
P7
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When you have come to the edge of all light that you know and are about to drop off into the darkness of the unknown,
Faith is knowing One of two things will happen: There will be something solid to stand on or you will be taught to fly.
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