............And I am wrong. I think AJ thinks his dad and I are his slave. His rage towards me is uncalled for. I did cower when he flipped but something inside of me stood up and said in a very calm voice, that I will never ever cower to him again. He strikes me or he throws anything at me, I will never cower again.........His rage will not frighen me again...

SO I humbly admit that the kind folks here were right and I have been wrong.......I am the one that tries to see good in everything/everyone. Actually there is good in everyone, but there is also some things not so goood in some folks............