hang in there, there is always a solution, sometimes you need to take astep back to see it, sometimes you need someone else to see it for you, but it is always there... sorry i don't have the answer but i know it is not on the end of a rope! the arguing will end eventually when your wife realises that you had no choice but to go bankrupt and that you did it for her to save getting further in debt, to give you both a fresh start debt free. i know it is devestatingly hard when one looses their home, but in reality it is only the bricks and mortar that are lost, the memories, love and family are still with you, a new building will come your way to shelter you both, it will be then up to you both to make it a home once again. tghink of it as a new chapter of your life, not the end (((((hugs))))))