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Thank you for caring so much......don't feel helpless. Some things you can't change. I think the keyword in your sentence is "accept the good things".
Alex is a wonderful child - he makes it very easy for me to do well with him. Thanks about the raise.
Don't worry about being on to check in.......enjoy the time with your family and the holiday.
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