Am new here and I honestly am not posting this as my problem but more as a Thought pondering issue we all face at one time or another in relationships.

I think it's just very possible that I sense certain things while listening to others and their problems in relationships and I just feel that this matter should be explored more deeply then what it has been.

So, the question as is : Should one's past be used against them ?

I say, NO !

What do you think ? Do you think that there is any possible reason why another would use one's past against someone ?