I'm here in southern NJ.

So, you have a couple more years before you're 18. Then you'll be able to insist on seeing your psych alone, and your parents won't have any rights to your records or information between you and the psych. I know it feels like a long time, but we're here in the meantime (and beyond) when you need to rant about your life.
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