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Old Jan 12, 2011, 10:46 AM
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Really, all you CAN do is just keep focusing on yourself and your goals. Do whatever you can to attain those goals, whether or not he wants to change. It really doesn't matter. You can leave him behind in the dust, or he can come along if he wants to. Either way, you're going to attain your goals. You HAVE to be the person you want to be!

If he cannot take the changes that you've made in your life, let HIM make any decisions about leaving/staying. You don't have to. It's your life and you will do what you need to do. You don't need to leave to achieve your goals. It shouldn't matter what he is doing for you to go 'where' you want to be.

God bless you and best of luck! Hugs, Lee