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"I believe I have the right to meet my needs if it does not interfere with meeting the needs of those around me."
I am sorry that you feel that your needs always have to come second. I hope that one day you can work on this and learn that everyone's needs need to be balanced and that sometimes your needs need to come first.
Do you have a hard time not pleasing people? "Yes."
I hope that one day you can work on this too.
"The er dr also said tho he believes she is becoming addicted to the tylenol 3 with codeine."
I am sorry. I hope that you all are able to work through this so that she can get her needs met.
" I think he wanted praise. I also think he likes me to feel indebted to him."
Sounds like this is something that you 2 need to work through. Sounds like you both struggle to get your needs met.
Yes, I hope that you can get some help somehow silent. Thinking of you.........
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Don't let your problems or the world make you feel small. Stretch your arms out over your head. Take a deep breathe. Tell yourself that you are big. You are big, not small. You always have space, you are not trapped........
I'm an ISFJ
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