Echoes.... I am thinking part of AJ's rage is due to him knowing he isn't doing what he should be doing and should a discussion be around anything that he has "procrastinated" he flips out. Or if the discussion has anything to do with asking him to do anything, he also flips out....I am tired of walking on egg shells....I honestly feel he would feel a lot better about himself if he would just work. I know when I am "busy" if it is just pulling weeds in the yard, just doing "something" I am in a much better mood....

Is good hearing that things worked out for you and your son. Sure makes life a lot easier when "family" can enjoy each other's company. I too, think AJ would be a lot happier if he "worked" and became more self sufficient.. His dad's sister's friend is waiting for AJ's resume. He has been waiting for two or more weeks...

Just lost my "frame of thinking" on this topic. WIll have to come back when my mind returns...