Oh, I just wanted to add... I know AJ's feels bad when he flips out at me. This is the first time in several months this has happened.. He knows it is wrong and he knows how bad it makes me feel.

Awhile back he told me he knows he is wrong how he sometimes treats me. He said he would try to do better, which he has. Like I mentioned above, it has been maybe 4 months since he last vented at me....But one time is even too much. One doesn't have to go into a "rage" to get their point across.. Anyway, not making excuses for him.. Just thought it was important to add this...