I have found that sometimes it's best to just be there in the same room, but don't talk. Hold me, brush my hair from my face, and/or kiss my forehead... That's what helps me.. I know there are times when I just want quiet. Words tend to make my skin hurt and I can't deal with it even though I KNOW that person is really just trying to help. And don't EVER tell me to calm down and quit crying, that it'll be ok.. When I'm at that point I honestly feel as though it WON'T be ok and it's the end of the world.. lol

I have really enjoyed reading all these posts and feel somewhat secure here.. Thank you everyone