Ryask is right - people love us only to the extent that we love ourselves. I'm not going to say you are guaranteed to find love; no one is. But one thing I'm certain of; if you choose to believe it's not possible, then for sure it won't happen. And I know you don't want to hear that you are young, be patient, all of that. I'll just tell you what I did. I got married at 20 because I believed that if I didn't, I would be alone the rest of my life. I learned the hard way that getting married for the wrong reasons is painful and destructive. I learned that it's better to be alone than to be with the wrong person. I was 40 when I married my true soul mate...sometimes I still feel alone, sometimes we don't get along, but this time it's okay. I'm glad I waited.