Hi Splash,
I know what you say is true about many people-being unfaithful that is. I hope that there are a lot of men and women who really are faithful, though. I think there are those who take their vows very seriously and who would not cheat, too. I know of some.

I believe that when a spouse is cheating there are usually signs of it. One of them is a change in the sex life-less to put it bluntly. There are many subtle clues. The old "working late" all the time. Then there are the obvious clues like finding strange underwear in the glovebox, etc.! The person generally acts different when unfaithful. There are some who are experts at it though, and hard to catch.

I think there are faithful people out there and I hope to find one some day. When we use our intuition we can usually sense when a person is not faithful. Something telling us that something has changed, something is wrong, something is up. It's not always an affair but it could be. Finding out about the person's past love life and lifestyle can be clues, too, unless there is a big change.

I think it's sad that there is so much unfaithfulness.


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