EJ aome of it is that we do have some extra money. But he is trying to find ways of not letting it be freed up for presents. He is constrictimg me too much. And I wish I would have brought this up with T yesterday but stupid me didnt say a word. Its not like I go out and spend oodles of money on gifts. But I do try to get something nice that is on sale. The thing is his family will be upset if they dont get gifts . And somehow the blame will be on me for that if there isnt any. We dont get along the best so they will think I am neglecting them. And thats not it at all! I DONT WANT TO BE THE BAD GUY!!!!!