I think one should wisely consider ones past when there is a potential relationship in the making. Especially about past relationships. There has to be a non judgemental approach when seeking answers about some ones past. Personally I believe its to mostly protect yourself, or in my case my kids. There is a lot of scary people out in the world now, theres nothing wrong with being informed and at least prepared for possible repeats in whatever behavior. Gotta watch your back.