Sometimes I just don't know how to handle it. I suffer with depression and anxiety so coping with his mood swings sometimes becomes unbearable. We've gotten into severe shouting matches (I know I shouldn't lash back at him, but sometimes I can't help myself). He's never tried to hurt me, but has thrown things against walls and broken many things in our house. Right now he has a lot of pain due to back issues and we've been trying to treat that in addition to his bi-polar, but he refuses to go to therapy.
Sometimes I feel like just throwing my hands up in the air and leaving, but I do love him and want to help him. Any advice would be appreciated.