Silver,
I can't answer whether that is the right email to send to your father or not. I wish that I could. Only you know inside of you what the possible consequence to the email could be, and if you can deal with them...if there would be any at all.
I do know that as my youngest is getting older, my husband is FREAKING OUT and watching her more closely than he did before. I think it might be a dad/little girl thing.
If you want to talk more via PM, send me one.
Love,
KD