Ah... at this time, when you feel the forum is getting to you rather than helping you, you take a break. I've taken such breaks, and believe me, I feel much better when I'm away from the relationships and stresses here. I take time out and the time I would usually be on this site, I instead replace with things I find relaxing such as reading, watching films, doing puzzles, etc. After a while, be it a few days or a few weeks, I feel mentally restored and ready to return back here, and I enjoy it far more.