Val, I understand how you are feeling. It sure would make me feel guilty every time I had an appointment with her, thinking I might be imposing on her.
Also, since the bond between T and patient can become so strong, I wouldn't want to have to think of her dying!

Dunno... I don't think it would work too good for me.
If it was me, I'd keep in touch with her to support HER, but I'd be finding me a new therapist. Ask her if there is anyone she could recommend because you feel you need to lighten her load. You probably have enough to deal with as it is, to have to deal with her health!
Wise men still seek Him.
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