When someone is going to college or has a new job, why do mental-health staff tend to home in on people's ADL/housekeeping skills? Is it that I'll bring someone from college or work home, and OMG the house is not clean? It's not like some casual friend KNOWS oh well, she's in mental health housing..or is it just to make sure someone's life is 'balanced out' and they can handle the extra demands? Or is it in case someone fails at school or work?