Well officially "normal" is the behaviour, expectations and ideals of 63% of the population so about 1/3rd of us don't quite fit.
You go on about labels, yet now you say "in your opinion" "Everyone who comes here to PC are the SANE ONES!
Well if I was sane I would be back at work and would have put behind me my depression, paranoid ideations and anxiety issues. Defining insanity is the problem most westernized countries face. Like a moral code its very rubbery and blurred. Morals are outraged when a public figure commits adultery etc., yet if we are tempted the morality seem to be diminished because "everyone else does it".
With the AZ killings, in Iraq or 'Ghan the guy would be a hero but, turn the gun on your own, and he's the devil incarnate. A medal or a label there is little to separate them except the relative circumstances that defines the two.
I have no idea where or what the answer is and, that is why I keeping asking WHY? And will continue to do so.