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Originally Posted by lovelystars
I'd say just invite your husband, you could even do a double date! The only time I've been alone with a guy friend in my 3 years of marriage was just while my sister was on her way to come hang out as well. I honestly think hanging out with another guy alone when your married can cause problems, unless the guy is gay. Married men shouldn't be asking married women other than their wives out to lunch alone. I know you think it's innocent and just friendly, but don't you think your husband's feelings are more important than you being alone with another man? Wouldn't it be more fun if your spouses were there anyways?
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Wow really? I mean I've had male friends my whole life and see no problem with going out to lunch with a friend, regardless of their sex. A married man can't ask a married woman they've known for 20 years out for lunch? I am just having a hard time understanding, so please bare with me.
I barely see any of my friends anymore because my husband gets so jealous. His feelings are important of course, but does that mean I can't go out with friends? Last weekend my husband visitied some friends and spent the weekend (they live 2 hours away) and it didn't bother me at all.
I've been reading the threads in this forum and they've been quite helpful actually. Then I read all the symptoms of being borderline and they describe me perfectly. The depression, the self hate, the rage, etc. I don't know why I don't get jealous though.
Sorry, now I'm rambling.