(((radio flyer))) - I'm sorry you're going through this with your son and you're smart to make the correlation between how he is now compared to how your ex was when you were married.

Since you're willing to open up to opinions. I think AJ might be a bit spoiled and needs to fend for himself. As long as you and your ex give him a place to live, cook, clean - he won't learn personal responsibility. You seem like such a nice person and it's hard to realize you might be enabling him. Maybe he learned some of his behavior from his dad IDK. I wonder what of husband he'll make? It's very good you're realizing this radio flyer.