Hi Snowleopard56,

Sorry that your other post didn't get much of a response. (I've had days/times like that ~ I can relate to your emotional mind)

Your post seems angry to me and I'm curious if there is a question to your post after all, or if it's more of a statement?? You're free to leave both, of course, I was just wanting to be sure that I didn't miss something.

I do agree with you on relationships requiring open communication. It is a good point that we all need to remind ourselves of (in all types of relationships). People often aren't looking at the same thing in the same state of mind, and we have different perspectives. In my opinion, that is the helpful part of forums. We all have some things in common, as well as some differences, we can use those things to our advantage to help each other feel a little better. Just hearing other perspectives on a big problem can help steady our emotions a bit.

That's my opinion ~ best wishes to you!