.............Oh again I wanted to add... This stuff with AJ's dad when we were married well, we didn't get along after a few years. We were both young, late 20's, both selfish and unwilling to "communicate". I can say when he cussed at me I sometimes giggled because of his accent. I did not understand his culture and he did not understand mine, so we clashed in many areas.....

The last l0 or more years we get along great. He has never raised his voice to me . I have I am sure angered him, yet he never vented or intimated me. He has always been honrable towards me over the past 10 years... We both have maybe "grown up"...Is about time as we are both seniors ..

Actually AJ's dad changed a lot over the years. He really turned into one of the "good guys".. I can even say I respect him now, whereas when married I could not say that...

I only added this because I don't want to paint a picture that AJ's dad is this awful person. I can say that during our marriage, we both were wrong. I tried in my way and he tried in his way and it just didn't work.........Unfortunately, AJ was caught in the middle..