Don't get me wrong I have never forced the to come over and I never will. As for the kids likeing me they both like me the boy was just mad a corrected him and his mom appladed him which was the problem. They always want to come over and she doesnt let them and says we dont want them. THe not wanting to come over coment was part of his temper tantrum. He proceded to come back over a few days later and stay for several days and not want to leave. My problems with them result in the crap their mom tells them thats not even close to true.