Thanks sanity seeker - actually my daughter is doing well and things are calming down. Now other kids are upset with the girl because she tried to break up her friend and her boyfriend - she's on to stealing boyfriends now lol. I've always told my girls to have several friends, so yes she's fine on that department.

Thanks opaquemind0 - thanks for sharing what happened to you. It's sad people don't respect other people's possessions.

Thank you Rhiannonsmoon - I know this is a long thread, but yes the teacher did change lockers for the girls. When her father called our house and the dads' had a calm talk, my husband mentioned there's also a missing gold choker necklace and a ring - so hopefully they did look for it. We didn't want to push further.

I wanted to thank everyone who responded to this thread. Since both my parents are deceased and my husbands as well, we don't have the opportunity to get words of wisdom from our families. It helped a great deal to vent my frustrations here.