Hi,

Give yourself time and resist the temptation to answer to these texts or to talk to her. Texting like that out of the blue is deeply disturbing. Its designed to steer emotions and thoughts in you so you dont forget her. So please do not let her have this control. Forget her.

You know her well and you know she is not what you need. She has issues that make who she is and you can see through that. Be strong and firm. I think each time you shut her away - you will feel stronger. And start looking for someone else - see if anyone is kind and caring enough to get to know better.

You are doing very well. Getting yourself back after abuse is tough but you are doing it. Be proud of yourself. Do not let her take that away from you!