oops.. By the way, has anyone read the book "get me out of here" by Rachel Reiland? She finds out she is borderline and retells her story and the therapy that eventually "cures" her. Like she said when looking at the borderline dianosis, sounds like a "manipulative a**hole". That's what I realized I am. Hope I can get out of that role as she was able to.

I would highly recommend the book, too. It helps you feel not alone with the diagnosis and behaviors and therapy, and she is able to get better. Encouraging.