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Originally Posted by Snowleopard56
I want to thank everyone for your personal comments on this subject, THANK YOU !
As many of you already know, There's no such thing as a Right or Wrong way when it comes to communicating with another individual, You can read all the books you want but the reality of this is, Communication is very Unique to each and every single human being !
Each of us has our own way of communicating with others and honestly, that's what makes communication challenging to begin with.
My Fellow Human Beings, am here to teach, not get in someone's head and tell them what makes them tick. Each of us is a Teacher and if we didn't care about others, we wouldn't be here trying to help others, now would we ?
I'd like to see this topic become a Life Learning exercise where everyone participates. Am sure there are many other sites on the internet where we can find the same thing but this is our home for Human Beings !
We need to help others in learning about themselves, We need to instill within them that they are not alone and should not be afraid !
With Communication comes being Responsible and being held Accountable.
Am not being PAID to do what am doing here !
Am doing what I feel is right and that's helping my fellow Human Being !
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I gently disagree. There are several 'wrong' ways to communicate, in my opinion. I had a parent who chose to communicate by alternating snarling at me and ignoring me. I had a boss who communicated by shrieking, screaming and shouting. I had a spouse who communicated by waiting until my back was turned and then muttering wounding things under his breath, then when I asked "what did you say?" denying he'd said anything at all. Then of course there is communication through slaps, punches and kicks and equally as bad, the
threat of violence, because that is the communication that uses the person's own emotions against him or her. Communication is an interesting subject, one I'm not willing to say is a free-for-all and it's all good. If it were all good, I'd say many folks wouldn't have emotional problems. Just my teachable moment.
