There is this guy. We met at the beginning of the semester. He calls me several times a week. I see him infrequently, but we have hung out alone several times (diners and such). Wierd, but we never talk about having a relationship..or dating. We just call. Well i just invited him to a holiday party with me and he declined.. He hasn't really called me since. Whats going on?? Should i be direct and ask.. whats going on with us.. are we just friends?? ugh!!!!!!!!!