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Originally Posted by salukigirl
Snow - Since we are all allowed our own opinions, mine is that you are very angry and have a superiority complex.
You don't think we realize that 99.9% of relationship problems stem from that? It helps to get it off your chest. And not everyone has the resources to learn about the different ways to communicate. Not to mention, everyones situation is different.
If you are so passionate about how stupid people on here are (that's how I understood your original post) then don't even bother looking. I'm pretty upset about your post and will not be reading anymore. Take your negative and condescending attitude elsewhere.
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Am going to overlook the fact that your personally attacking me and by the sound of your comment, YOU HAVE ALREADY JUDGED ME !
As far as I am concerned, this is our first interaction between us and as such, if there was a problem between you and i, it should have been reported early on to begin with. If anyone has a problem here, it's YOU !
Communication is like a MINEFIELD ! You have to constantly watch where you step so you don't become a casualty. Everyone knows this, esp myself ! It may not have occurred to anyone because it's so obvious to begin with, but communication is so vital not only in relationships but life itself.
I mentioned that there is no Right nor Wrong way in communicating, maybe I didn't clarify myself or became distracted but I believe that each individual has their own methods when communicating with others. You can not dispute the fact that when you encounter a problem, you were taught the correct steps in solving that problem.
In order to understand if a problem does in fact exist, YOU must learn to recognize the problem to begin with !
PROBLEMS, among human beings will never, ever get solved unless said problem is brought to one's attention and many of these problems are created by ourselves.
I do not believe that anyone here can dispute the fact that we are our own worst enemy .