True or False
1. I have attatchment issues with my t. - Not anymore. I used to, but now it feels like a secure, healthy attachment. I'm glad I'm attached.
2. I have jealousy issues regarding either my t's family or my t's other clients. - certain clients, yes. one in particular.
3. I started therapy blindly, completely unaware that such issues would even arise. YES, BIG TIME
4. I want to be t's favorite client. - True!
5 I secretly believe that I am t's favorite client. - LOL - I don't know if I am, but I TELL him I am. Once his phone rang, and I said "oh, there's your favorite client...oh no, wait, it can't be, because your favorite client is sitting RIGHT HERE" lol We talk a lot about why I want to be the "favorite". The feelings is smaller than it used to be, but I still feel it.
6. I think about therapy more than any other element of my life. False, but there was a time earlier in therapy when that was true.
7. I love my t. True, for sure.
8.If I were to find out that everyone else here on PC had the same t as myself I would be ok with that. And be able to continue to offer support and caring to my fellow PCers. I think it would be hard to read about T's interaction with other clients. Our relationship is precious to me. But would I still be able to offer support? Yes. For sure.
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