I'm going to look a little nuts here but I have T and massage T (who does therapy and massage) so I have 2 sets of answers
True or False
1. I have attatchment issues with my t. False (and this is the first T I can say that about... in the past I had major attachment issues)
2. I have jealousy issues regarding either my t's family or my t's other clients. False I am however jealous that she loves my cat more than me!
3. I started therapy blindly, completely unaware that such issues would even arise. False (our very first "real" conversation was about my attachment isses in therapy)
4. I want to be t's favorite client. False (can't imagine my T having favorites... other than my cat.)
5 I secretly believe that I am t's favorite client. False (except when I bring the cat)
6. I think about therapy more than any other element of my life. False (I used to but don't any more)
7. I love my t. Very True
8.If I were to find out that everyone else here on PC had the same t as myself I would be ok with that. And be able to continue to offer support and caring to my fellow PCers. OMG Aaaah! Nope, wouldn't be OK with it... but would still be OK with fellow PCers.
Massage T
True or False
1. I have attatchment issues with my t. On the line with this one.... I have a strong attachment to her that would be an issue with others but she is really good about it. Because she is a massage T she is able to have different boundaries.
2. I have jealousy issues regarding either my t's family or my t's other clients. False
3. I started therapy blindly, completely unaware that such issues would even arise. True... It had not happened with massage therapists in the past and massage T has a personality I usually can't stand.
4. I want to be t's favorite client. False
5 I secretly believe that I am t's favorite client. False
6. I think about therapy more than any other element of my life. close but false
7. I love my t. Very true
8.If I were to find out that everyone else here on PC had the same t as myself I would be ok with that. And be able to continue to offer support and caring to my fellow PCers. Maybe. Massage T has a very small number of clients which lets her be very available to me. If her availability changed (even though I rarely use it) I would be really unsettled about it... but it wouldn't matter if they were PCers or not.
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