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Jan 16, 2011, 11:32 AM
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Member Since: Nov 2002
Location: Mid World
Posts: 18,084
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Quote:
Originally Posted by IceCreamKid
When someone asks more of you than you can or are willing to give, how do you react?  |
IMHO this is a boundary issue. There was a time that I would have done/given whatever was asked regardless of it's imapct on me. Then I learned to have some personal boundaries.
Today if someone asks more of me than I can or am willing to give I tell them that's not something I can do. I might offer an alternative that I would be able to give them. That's if the person asks me.
If someone makes demands of me, regardless of whether I'm able to do the thing or not, I tend to get my back up. I don't like be ordered around.
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