Still with him. It's been 24 hours without any mention of any sex stuff. Not saying I'm staying but things have gone well.
I think his best friend Dan had a little talk with him because he's not bringing up anything to do with the inappropriate or kinky or hurtful. Still not saying I'm staying.
I can see how she warped him. How inapproprate things are just "normal" to him. He's been learning not to do those, how they are warped things. Still not staying.
I wish there was a way that I could though.
I have a lot of empathy because he was the victim and not the perpetrator in the "relationship" that they had.
Thanks for not judging me or him and thank you for all your emotional support. I will still keep you updated.
Hugs, NF
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