im a timid person & i dont stand up for myself im proud of people when they stand up for themselves i dont understand when my husband is here all he does is call me names complains cuz he cant drink & typical verbal abuse crap i made him leave he whines to come home & is all nice to me well until i dont say what he wants to hear on the phone then hes callin me names r these guys supposed to be your friends? i guess the people like them prey on people so they can make themselves feel good & when we get a set of balls it screws with them more than we know then it might get even uglier cuz when abusive controlling people feel the control slipping they sometimes go to any length to make u miserable & **** with u & these people for many years claim to love u? geez last time i checked people who love u dont call u names mess with u all the bull**** its this sick thing cuz all they do is abuse & make u feel responsible for their misery then when u kick them out of ur life their still not happy & they never wanna see u have happiness either well just to protect urself even though this is not in our nature have a plan ready to **** with them so bad they will leave forever this is so against my nature i dont wanna say anymore