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People can only go through change if they have people to support them, what if I am out of the support that I need where I am at?
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This is NOT a true statement.......it's easier to go through change when we have support, but it's not impossible to change without support.
What is true is that we can not change unless WE, OURSELVES are determined to make the changes. Without our own determination to succeed at anything we end up failing. Without determination, there is no internal drive to make anything happen. It's definitely nice to be surrounded by good support, but if it doesn't exist, it's honestly a very good feeling to achieve a goal in spite of what's around us.....then we know it's because we wanted to succeed & that's a really good feeling.
When we depend too much on others for support we can actually suck the life out of them.....best way to make enemies out of friends is to be too dependent on them for support......definitely best to hold onto the determination ourselves & find the drive internally within us to succeed even when dealing with an ED.