Poor Radio. That's not OK. When you tell him leave, make sure 1) you are not alone. 2)you have a plan o how to get help quickly during the next days and weeks afterwards, in case he gets drunks and decides to come back and insist on his "rights". 3) That any contact with him is handled by someone else for a while. Those are just my suggestions for now. Do you have any one you can talk to? Any one you can go to in an emergency? It's so hard when someone you love does these things, dear, but i'm so glad that you see that letting them continue isn't hlping either of you. hUGGGGSSSSS