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Originally Posted by REEG
Sometimes it's easier to work with disclosures or requests that are less emotionally loaded - it can give you practice and a base to build on for the bigger stuff. Keep us posted
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Hello! Sorry I haven't replied earlier, I had to wait to get my 5 replies approved and I didn't want to continue before that happened. I'm really impatient


I have so many (trust) issues with my T, so asking for a somehing that is definitely emotional but can hardly said 'no' to is probably easier.
Like: "I don't feel safe with you. I need you to help me more!" is that something I could say? Or is it rude?
When I want to talk about my needs I always fear I'm crossing a line, maybe she tries hard already to gain my trust and to make me feel safe. And I'm just that bi*** who wants more, more, more

Wow, before starting therapy I'd never have thought that any of this would play any role in the progress.
Thank you, your reply made me think, that's good!
And I'll definitely keep you posted