he says he loves you but is "no longer in love" with you. that is a very, very powerful statement. my question is why do you want to stay with a person who is not in love with you??? if you are willing to be in a relationship like that and you are happy, then so be it. either way, you should (1) let go of trying to change him and (2) accept him as he is; because you really can't make someone love you as much as you love him. ((((HUGS for you)))) ....I KNOW IT IS HARD....(((HUGS)))...as Joseph Campbell says, "follow your bliss."

<font color=purple> But a stranger in a strange land, he is no one:
men know him not and to know not is to care not for.
Bram Stoker, Dracula, 1897 </font color=purple>